Finally I can post to you and say I ECHO WHAT Phoenixdeux says...
I can't lie and I would either have to be mean or try to find the right words which is difficult when I am upset and your darling W makes me furious...!!!
I am sorry I can't be as suportive as you would like me to be, I am not saying you should quit on your hopes for reconcil, I am saying though that there are some things that are not matters of perception. They are objectively BAD/MEAN/GOOD/NICE etc. You are so eager to make her see how good you are, you are reinventing some basic things you should stick to.
I hope I am making SOME sense. If I am not, read again Phoenix's post. It is very clear there. Love ya Maria
