Just a point from a woman about the breasts thing....PLEASE BELIEVE her when she tells you that a hard nipple does not mean arousal. It is not the same as an erection, ok? This is something men have a hard time understanding....but to be stimulated by breast touching is a *choice* we make. Breasts are not like a penis or a clitoris. They can be completely asexual, or VERY sexual...all depending upon choice, mood, circumstance, etc. It is actually very demeaning and irritating to a woman when a man will not realize this fact. It is as if he is saying to her "I don't believe you - you are OBVIOUSLY turned on, I can see it by the fact of your hard nipples - and yet you are withholding that from me". How hard is it for a woman to be told she is lying about something like this? VERY.
Silly - it simply doesn't work that way. Nipples get hard for any number of reasons and it is not a reflection of desire or arousal. Obviously she nursed your babies, right? Are you thinking that her nipples being hard during nursing meant sexual arousal?
Not meaning to pound you with 2x4's but this is just something that men frequently don't understand.
