What should I do at this point?

[one_light]

Hi Cade,

I understand your heart attack analogy. I to would not have done the soul searching, made the changes, etc. had I not come to such dire straits. I was diagnosed with bi-polar disorder during marriage counseling.

Like you, I have done much to improve the behavior that caused her to want the D. Like you it has not done much to change my sitch. Finally, like you, I get to keep the positive changes that I have made in my life. Sometimes that is all you get. Don't make the mistake of thinking that is nothing.