Remember from the DR book, your friends and family don't want to see you in any pain, they are more interested in the short term fix to get you out of the pain, not the long term goal that will make you happy. That is something you have to decide. Don't be afraid to put your mum in her place though. Let her know where you stand, and you understand why she is saying those things, but right now you are standing for your marriage, she can either support you or keep her thoughts to herself. She might be taken aback, but she will likely respect your stand
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning