I think when men are younger they are definitely ruled by their penis in so many ways. oops I said it....
But I also remember my hormones were crazy and I was doing my H 24/7 when I first met him too.

I think it also boils down to sexual attraction and then like the men on this board are saying.....

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When a real man gets Married he marries "the one" and sure he looks at other Women and may even think she is attractive.... but if he is committed thats all it is. LOOKING~
Our society has sex in everything even burger commercials. It is looked at as something you can get by having the right clothes, car or drink you prefer..... But that isnt true intimacy.

The sex and orgasms I have with my H now are amazing.... and we have almost been married 12 years! All 100% natural... no Mercedes etc etc. No Gucci... All those things would be nice but they dont get me hot.
My brain and how I am being treated outside the bedroom make for some really hot sex....

Unfortunately boys are taught too conquest as many women as they can and are praised for it.
On the other hand girls are taught to save themselves....
and if she doesnt she is a whore...

go figure...

And then these kids get Married and noone really ever was open or honest with them about sex...

I for one was taught that sex was dirty... you only do it to have kids... and only whores get off and like to F*Kc.....
CATHOLIC ... on top of that Hispanic girl upbringing.
My Mom will still tell me .. " Oh the idea of putting a Mans **** in your mouth its just sick... I dunno who would ever do that?"
I have never told her I do...

So anyway .. yeah we need a sexual revolution.

I personally have tried my best to be open with my kids about sex and I am open for questions as much as possible....

Anyway..... just my 2 cents...
~Ali