how do i show my sincere empathy? (dumb man here sorry)

Today i woke up before my W.. fed the cats.. surfed the web a little.. W and dogs got up.. i took a shower, went downstairs and was as pleasant as i could be. We chatted a little.. as if nothing had happened. W went outside to brush one of our dogs and one of the cats.. a couple people we know that are building a house nearby stopped by, just a quick hello.. etc..

W was outside in her pyjamas.. her underwear sticking up.. i went and pulled her pants back up.. she laughed.. did it one more time, another laugh.

back in the house.. i tried again, and was going to pull her pants up as much as i could.. funny.. she said don't you going to pull my pants all the way up..i know you too well.. laughing

this is all so surreal..