Phoenix - Thanks. I will stay out of it. But if everyone thought it was a really bad idea - I would tell him not to do it. I will not chime in with anything.

I am trying to just worry about myself. It would be a lot easier to do that if we did not live together. I have mixed emotions though because I don't want to be separated from the boys at all. i think you had said last week or the week before that you thought we needed to separate for a while. I thought long and hard about that and ultimately agreed. In the end - she wouldn't go.


M 43
W 44
M 17
T 22
S16,12,9
Bomb 2/05/08
I served her 1/06/09
S'd 3/15/09
D'd 12/21/09



"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.