Did you forget what a beast your wife was to you? Isn't this the woman that accused you of all sorts of untrue things? This all sounds to me like a guy that's still looking at his wife to see if how he talks or behaves has an impact on his wife. Personally, I thought you were more at the point where you realized that she is the one that has a lot to prove to you and would have to work to win you back. If that's the case, then I'd suggest you start acting like it. She's just another fish in the sea...internalize that...believe it...and she will notice the difference in you.
My opinion of the text exchange was that it was pursuing to the max, in the wrong direction. You've said your piece, she heard you, move on from the subject. I wouldn't continue to let her rant at you while you take it and say you're sorry. You've almost bought all that crap she's been peddling to you. Remember, she settled all that with the divorce proceedings....why explain further how you've failed so miserably? I'd steer clear of these R talks. Change the subject or just quit texting back. I don't think they clear things up so much as validate her reasons for leaving. If you have to say, "sorry", then it should be "sorry you feel that way."
Last edited by Phoenixdeux; 07/01/0806:29 PM.
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
