Silly, I'm sure he had that thought, "why stick yourself with a ball-and-chain?" I guess the difference is he'll never know what he has missed. I on the other hand did a little of that "crazy living" and now know which lifestyle I prefer. I just never knew how much attention a marriage would take to keep the ML part going.... It's a work in progress.

You are at the age Silly where the troubles began for my M. I wish I had done what you are doing now and putting the work into trying to change things for the better. Keep at it man, don't waste 17 years like I did, ignoring it and trying to run away from the pain. I only woke up just recently to the fact that it can really change.

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Sep01 Me PA 1
Jan02 filed D
Mar02 ended A 1 reconcile
Apr08 Me PA 2
May08 ended A 2
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