I woke up this morning thinking about you & wondering what you would do in my sitch. Thinking about it further, I decided we're a little too close in where our R's fall to give much more than support & ((()))'s.
Try me...it can't hurt...here or elsewhere; i'll keep looking.
And yes, I do think that those very basic goals are all related to me taking more control over me...I feel very certain that H is going to follow through with things, even though there is still weirdness at times. And while there is a small bit of "I'll show him what he's left" involved, it's really more just buckling down and really doing some things for me that I keep having trouble following through on. The weight issue is a real stumbling block for me and my self-image, so it's all inter-related.
I've been so tired at night lately, awake too much in the middle of the night; will try to post a better update tonight. H has been at home last couple nights since OW's kids have been home (never any discussion about why he's stayed, of course, and I've just accepted it as a matter of course for now); today H starts in the corp apt. he told me he started in two weeks ago (Maybe 'quit snooping once and for all' should be another goal...although on balance, i don't regret doing it)
I'm worried about you (((Sunny)))...let me know what's going on.
(Maybe 'quit snooping once and for all' should be another goal...although on balance, i don't regret doing it)