here Goes Part 2

[MichelleLT]

While I have moments where I feel the same way about my H....realistically he DOES think he tried to save it. I didn't see it, and since he was being passive aggressive and didn't tell me what was wrong it seems like he missed what should have been the EASIEST thing by asking for what he needed, but he DOES feel like he tried. Your W probably does too. And whether we necessarily agree with their perspective, their feelings are valid. And your sincere empathy will go a long way to repairing your R with your W.