Star)))))))))) argh!!!! words fail me, I mean, GRRR! what a total idiot, hon, you are not loosing much by D'ing him. I totally agree with paying him off, I also was in that position, that if we were to go to court he'd get much less than what I'd given him but in the long run with L's fees and such I'd end up in debt. And yes, it is money well spent to get rid of him.
As far as what he is going to do with that money? you could care less hon, I agree with the other posts, the $ will be gone in a blink of an eye and the honeymoon will be over with ms. bimbo, he is so going to regret this in the near future.
Thank heavens for your parents)))))) I pray all goes well with the signing, babe, you will do great, go unwind at Disney and let that fool hang.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.