Help! New to this...still hoping for R

[Rusty]

Thanks Tink - I was waiting for your take on this. But did you read the part about his stubborness?? That is my concern. I guess DB & SW will help me get through that?
We just had a situation with our S - 22. He came over for dinner sunday night and brought me his bills to help him get back on track. His gas has been turned off and he was a day away from electric going also. I helped him, but I am really worried about his drinking. I called H Monday am, and they are supposed to meet today,but I was hoping they would meet last night. When he told me he wasn't going to meet him until today - I started criticizing, but then I did the SW and said "Whatever you think." I was so proud of myself!!!
I am on the SW board, but so far don't see alot from it. I don't think I know how to use those things very well yet.
I don't know if he will initiate anything, and he really hasn't called me at all since we were together. He seems to have backed off. The conversation about our Son was the first one and I just kept it about that and was pleasant, although worried.
What should me next step be? You say to be 100% committed to the R, but how without pursuing? What would you say I should do now? Nothing? I'm not sure.