No offense, because we're in a somewhat similar boat in many ways, Cinco, but do you think he ever looks at your marriage and thinks he's lucky to be single, the way you look at his "lonely, sad" life and think you're lucky to be married?
I know how you feel; it looks from the way I talk here as if I'm miserable in my marriage, but I'm not. I do love my wife, and I'm usually conscious of how happy I am to have my family. But if people who envy this happy marriage knew about the sleepless nights and the tears and the simple fury, they might be less envious.
People on the outside see all the ways I show her love all the time, and they think she's so lucky to have me. And they see her showing love to me, and they think I'm so lucky to have her. But she and I don't see it.
