I don't think I could make big changes like g can. Part of that is because of the kids. Personally I would love to scoop them up and move to TN but that can't happen with them having to see H. I would love to go other places too but that just can't happen.
Right now, I am just allowing myself a movie now and then, book club once a month and trying to convince myself to make some changes here and there in the house. I know that it may not appear this way on here, but I am pretty shy. I have a hard time making myself go out and meet people.
I met H at a restaurant that I worked at and all of his friends seemed to work there. He would come by to meet up with them. We became friends that way and then fell in love and the rest is history. I know I'm not going out to meet someone new per se but I am not going to meet anyone until I force myself to get out there. Babysteps, babysteps...
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory