I didn't want anything more than that, and that is true.
Yeah. Not true.
Congrats on having sex with him again. I don't agree that you should not put any expectations on it. I once blew a situation because a friend told me that and so I acted that way and then the guy thought I wasn't interested.
Rusty, this R in my opinion is definately salvagable. He obviously really loves you. If you change you have an excellent chance of restoring things. But you have to be 100% committed to the R.
Right now I hear, Oh I don't know if I want him, he's a child, etc. That kind of stuff is the old you. If you want him then go for it:
Practice DB, Practice SW Get your butt immediately on that board And when he initiates another "date," accept and get a dinner in their before the sex by saying something like I think I'll be hungry first. So he can initiate the offer of dinner. Let him see your new skills and then you will be working on the R from an emotional and sexual level. If you give your 100% you can have a happy marriage. Make that 110%.
