DQ I think it is very unlikely if not impossible that we will ever meet one of "those other guys" on this board. Those are the kind of guys that would just cut and run at the first sign of trouble, assuming that they ever got married in the first place. They would never put any thought into trying to make things work out.
I have an old friend of mine I've known since high school. He is that frog jumping from one lily pad to the next, a confirmed bachelor. Granted his youth was very exciting for him, but now he is very sad and lonely. The conquests don't come very often if at all any more. His attitude has not changed either, he is stuck at that immature level and any women that might now be interested in him can see right through to how he really is.
The really sad part is that he grew up in a home with parents that were committed to each other. They had a very solid and happy marriage until the mother died. He had the perfect model of happiness to follow and he chose to ignore it.
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