My W was running around working this morning and I don't know how it got started, she said she had a interview Friday (I'm off work Friday) I said, ok, I'll see you on Monday, She said wait a minute, I wanted to take kids to the pool Friday afternoon, I said I would never stand in her way of taking the kids, but I want her out of the house, I don't want to see her.
We talked about D and she agreed to my terms, I get the house and she gets 1/2 of my 401K, she said she has L that can do it for $750 because it will be uncontested, I told her, great, give me the name and phone number and I will take care of it because I want her out of the house as quick as possible, so I can move on with my life. - Should I let her deal with the L and just pay for it, she would be the one divorcing me ???
She was crying, telling me she expected more help from our parents, I told her I couldn't help that. Told her I couldn't do anything about our families not helping us out more, that all we have is each other to deal with everything. She was upset that her parents are not involved with the kids like her grand parents were with her.
She kept repeating that she was sorry for hurting me, I said, "I don' want to hear I'm sorry because it doesn't help. all I want is you our of the house"
She repeated her sequence of reasons she was leaving, blah, blah, blah, I told her OM was a big problem for me, that because of what she is doing I cannot stand to even look at her
She said OM was not the reason for her leaving. I told her I want her out of my house out of my life, out out out !!!!. Told her our whole M was a waist that she should just take the wedding album outside and burn it.
Again, I am the worse DB person on this site, I'm inflexible on subject of OM, get rid of OM and I'll talk, other than that, get out of my house, get out of my life, get away from me completely.
Googbye witch !!!
M45 W41 M10 3/4 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 Date I'll forgive W for A = never
