You are not the only one who is calling their spouses regarding money issues that they "have to" talk to them about. You are pursuing and now he's running. Figure out money issues and everything yourself. Your job right now is to be the one HE can't track down.
Tink
P.S. My computer is in a deep sleep because of spyware and have a friend coming over today to hopefully fix it (it may take longer). I'm at the library right now on a timed computer so if I don't get back to you for a while you'll know why.