NikB #27 (still tentatively Piecing)

[S.T. _I Made It!]

always gotta hand it to OT to give the good "sexual" suggestions!

Nik, I agree that him being at another job will help. AND I think the timing has everything to do with it. if it had happened earlier when you when he first mentioned it, I think it would have backfired, but right now he's very comfortable and happy with you, and I believe he's ready to move on to this new life of his. I think it is great that he's changing, and it's making a new chapter for his life. Now we just need to pray that his new job proves to be a successful move and that he LOVES it!

Very glad to hear H is safe. I'm concerned for you though, and maybe this is just my personality that I always hesitate on thinking the worst (for ex., if I can't find my child in the dept store, I'm scared, but still giving the benefit of the doubt that nothings wrong and I will find them..and then time will escalate my concerns) But your mention of hyperventilating/shaking about H...I suppose you could have good reason if you couldn't see what actually happened, and if all you knew was him being in a wreck and who knows what that could mean for you until you found out for certain he was alive and well. IDK. Do you think this is a normal/ave response? Perhaps I'm making a bigger deal out of it.???

anyways, you def have to use one of OT's suggestions!