Are you trying to tell we as long as he works with her he will have feelings. Don't they ever just get sick of the rejection and come out of their fog? DO you feel that I will have to be ready to leave and then maybe he would think about what he has.
They have to have limited contact and I actually asked her if thay ever have what they call a shape up(that is when they can choose to go on another shift) if she would think about making sure H is not on the same shift and she said yes she would think about it but,I can't make her and if the shift that H would be on benefited her time wise then i couldn't blame her.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez