hang in there with the patience that is great that you are talking with a DB caoch! that has helped me too- reflective listening and PMA..thats pretty much the answser.... i also think that working on this type of listening with anyone has helped me learn how to do it. i try it out with friends and family so i can becomne better and better at it. seomtimes i give unsolicited advice and i realize thats not what the person needed its all learning!
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