BTW, I do NOT endorse divorce. I hate it. But your H seems so hell bent. WE know he is confused. He doesn't. And he treats you...well, you know.
And though it may be for the better, it is still going to hurt.
We love our spouses, but it is not returned. How sad is that. I deserve to be loved for who I am. To be respected. To have someone care about me. If my roomie is incapable, then it IS for the better.
For me.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."