Try to see it like this. Your H has been such an ass to you. Do you really want to be married to someone that treats you this way? You deserve MUCH better, kat.
For myself, I am going to try to see the good side of the issues. Instead of dreading roomie moving out, which in my heart I do not want, I need to think of it as something good. That it may be the best thing to happen for us. Maybe she will finally see what we are to each other.
I know that it could be the end of us. If it turns out that way, then it was all for the better.
And yes, maybe a fresh start on life.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."