Do you mean that I should be happy that I am getting divorced and see it as an oppurtunity to get a fresh start on life?? I see it like my children growing up and moving out, I don't have to like it but have to accept it as part of the process. I will be happy for them of course, not so happy for H.
Clarify for me if you can.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory