Oh you so should bring them in TD! Why not, they will make you smile and remind you of your gorgeous kids. There, they have made me smile now so already they have done a job!
I think maybe he does think about me and in the past it has all been negative and forcing himself to disconnect from me. I actively saw and felt him doing that over the months. But I was also giving him reason to do that by forcing him to see me and 'enjoy' spending time with me. Hopefully by not doing that it will have the opposite effect.
