My exW could have done any of the following to let me know there were issues:
Sent me an e-mail.....
Written me a note.......
Had BIL talk to me......
She simply chose not to communicate those with me... She assumed I was a mind reader..... It is impossible to know there are issues when you say in front of friends and family how great your M is and she never says anything contrary.......
In the end, I really think these WAS are just using a million and one excuses for blazing off.... They are just attempting to justify their actions...
NMD
"Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. That is what makes a marriage last --more than passion or even sex!" - Simone Signoret