we made progress on the friends front and i don't want to lose that by going dark completely, but i do want her to lead communication. i planned on laying low for a a few weeks. I want still show my support for school. my plan was in about two weeks sending a card or email, excited about school and supportive. then something to mark her first day of school in Aug.

then separately our wedding anniversary is at the end of Aug, I know that is so far off right now that any thing can happen, but does anyone have a idea of how to mark that day without pressure. I think that just letting the day pass without anything is not a good idea either. seems very sticky.


Me 27, W26
T-12 M-4
SEP 4/29/08
Holding
250 miles
Awaiting
Support
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