H informed me he plans to file very soon. Probably this week or next. I'm of course devastated once again. I prayed the separation could gives us some much needed space but it's only been 2 weeks and he's already on to the final step.

I'm needing to hear how you all do it after papers are filed. How do you hold out hope. Has anyone had any good experiences after the papers were filed? H told me a statistice a month ago he read in his divorce recovery book that said 25-30% of all divorce cases filed, never go all the way through. That's a pretty encouraging stat, but H has not given me ANY reason to be encourages through all of this.

I'm needing some hope now. Anyone have any to give?

Chris


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Me:39
H:39
D:8
D:4
M:9 (T 13)
Bomb 4-5-08, H moved out 6-16-08,
Reconciled and H moved back in 5-31-09
Still doing GREAT a year later!!!