Hi, I'm new to the forum.

[The Wifey]

Jeff really is the best. I went through my list of "10 things to do before I call Bill" list last night and then called him. I asked how things went at the lawyers and he said he didn't go. He said he is still doing a lot of thinking. It's still one day at a time, and he still isn't ready to come home, but he didn't go to the lawyers!

He said he had a great time on Sunday and would see me on the 4th.

I know I can't over-react here, but it gave me a lot of hope. I will keep up the 180's and not chase him. I have to show him that I understand he is still working through his feelings.

Thank you so much for the moral support, guys. I will continue to work on making positive changes. I just feel good to know that he paused before he kept the appointment.