There is nothing wrong with being a DAM. Its just a good description of something you can't describe.. Why did you do that.. because I am a DAM. DAM kinda imposes a womans thoughts onto the things we do. Kinda like men see women as Queen B.
In all likelyhood.. you will never stop being a DAM.. simply because you are wired different than a woman. Making mistakes.. is a good thing.. if you learn from them. Now the levels of DAM are.. King (Thats me), Advanced, and then just plain old DAM. It's the idea you can't change what you are.. just who you are.
"my W always points out when I slip up around her and revert back to the old things...and occasionally acknowledges the changes...LOL....kinda funny actually."
So you have a gauge with which to work by. Use it.. everything she says will not be the gospel.
"i still don't understand.......oh well. sometimes it's better to not understand."
I am a year into all this stuff.. and I still don't understand all of it. Honestly.. figure out the key points and focus on that. Don't worrry so much about the nit picky stuff.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
