Hope4us struggle, part 6

[Hope4us]

Oh, she's already trying to convince S16 that he likes it here. I know she won't just come out and say "Ok, lets move, I know it will be best for us".

That's why I'm going to tell her that unless she's doing this for the right reasons, I think it's best if we separate so she can figure out what she wants to do with her life. If she stays and our marriage ends, at least we'll be removed from the mess. Cause if we stay together, I'll end up being the one walking, even if she comes around.

Last night is case in point. Got home from work and no wife. She gets off at 4:00. By 7:00 I'm getting a little worried that maybe something happened to her. So I sent her a text that said "are you ok" and all she replied was "yes". Nothing else. She comes home a little after 8:00 and doesn't say a word to me. She'd been shopping, but why couldn't she just let me know she was going shopping/to dinner, what ever? It's just these kinds of things that reinforce that she's not ready to work on our marriage. How inconsiderate can you be to not even let your spouse know you're not going to be home after work.

And if we stay together and she keeps doing these type's of things, I'll not WANT to reconcile if she ever figures this out.