Hi T!

That sounds like a good, funny, witty, snappy email...but, I dont know about the timing?? Is it too soon? He is away right, at a camp, does he have interent access there do you know? (I guess he does), would he be super busy and just enjoying the time away? Do you think it would resonate with him to get an email outta the blue from you, whilst hes in that little camp bubble, will he respond?

I dont know! I guess I am saying, could you leave it a little longer? I am sure it feels like ages since you last saw/spoke to him, but you wont get an easy 2nd chance to contact him, if he doesnt respond to a lighthearted email right now from you and then you will be waiting anxiously.

Dont listen to me though, what do I know!? I have fryed synapses lately and you know your sitch best, so if you think its time, I think you already came up with a great email.

As Kalni said to me though, whats your goal? Just to maintain contact? I was thinking maybe you were heading back to NYC soon, so do you need to drop that in at some point (when he is back I guess?). Thanks for your insightful words on my sitch, as always!!!! Thankyou.

Ali xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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