G, you are locked up. What I meant to say was that she has NOT accepted the idea of you moving on. She is still thinking that if she says "the right thing" that you will stop your move and she can keep things as they are. I was just wondering if you corrected her phrasing. kat
No, I don't think she has accepted it, but I give her no reason to think I am going through the charade of moving just to get a reaction out of her. I don't think she is hoping to "say the right thing" to keep me from moving, I have given her plenty of opportunities to keep me here. I think she fears losing the security that I represent. I see that she is confused, messed up. But I have been very frank with her, no emotional chess matches. I said to her last night - "You don't want to say what is on your mind, because you think you can't talk to me about it, but you really can." W: No, it's not that. gF: "Then what?" W: Nothing.
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