And total congrats on being very calm/classy/dignified about it!!!!!!
yes W was looking at me as i thanked SIL and her BF for coming for dinner, and told SIL BF " see you friday for squash"... didn't say anything to W.. couldn't really look at her...
showed her some panphlet on Mexico that came in the mail, then excused myself and said "i am just going out .."
i couldn't sit there and watch a movie and pretend nothing happened..
on my drive home, i was angry she served me on my parents anniversary.. i wished i had never met her.. i know i don't mean it.. but i was alone driving in the dark and i said it..