WAW#8

[Jeremyt]

Phil, I was thinking the same thing about my wife too!

They aren't DB'ing just seems like it. The difference is we DB because we went to bring things back together. They are acting in some similar ways with some other feelings at work. It's so easy for them to act detached becuase they are and have been fighting it until the floodgates open up.

I was thinking how I wish sometimes I could DB as well as my wife can act like she does. Obviously when you are angry it's easier to ride the wave rather than what LBH's try do and that's have a PMA, GAL and use whatever techniques work for our sitch.

I sure have trouble detaching without being super angry about it. The PMA works until I go down that road.