New plan...I am to go into the lawyer's office tomorrow at 8:30am and sign something. H will be at the lawyer's office at 4:30 to sign all his divorce papers and things. I go on the vacation for 2 weeks as planned and by July 16, H is out of the house forever. I am nervous about this plan and still am not sure if I should leave or not.
I am very blessed to have parents that support me financially and emotionally.
Yes, my H has turned out to be the worst person I have ever met. Although 7 years ago, you couldn't have told me that. I am still shocked at how much one person can change in such a short amount of time.
Sara please don't take this the wrong way but if you give someone money and then never see them again, often times it will be the best money ever spent. If all it takes to get rid of this drama is a couple (ok, several) thousand dollars, then in a very short time the return on your investment is evident. The source of your misery is gone and you can live your life for you. I say this because I loaned my mother $2,000.00 4 years ago on the promise that she would give it back in 90 days and have not heard from her since. In the grand scheme of things, it was the best $2,000.00 that I have ever spent. Sad to say, but it was worth it. It took a while for me to see it, but it has been.
Sorry for the hi-jack.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
