I couldn't believe how that 'crumpling' feeling kicked in. My own anxiety wove its own drama within my head. It's okay for folks to get upset with me; I won't fall over and die (though that is the underlying message going through my head).
I think of how things have changed for you in leaps and bounds. It's amazing what happens when people congregate to help each other.
Thanks again!
*hugs*
Gypsy....
Oh shucks...
I felt you hurting and I won't stand for that. Honesty from the heart is something you taught me. One is lucky to see a falling star and make a wish before it vanishes. I on the other hand had two 'rising stars' come into my life and give me not only opinions and advice, but a deeper insight to a unspoken travisty.
I never took my W's childhood for granted, but felt helpless to aide her and took her outlashings personally. The warmth and understanding I received was of epic knowledge.
You made a choice to open up to me and share your most darkest secrets with me, with no regard IMO to yourself and what it might unleash inside of yourself. That my friend is the truest form of unconditional love, so when I say I love you it is meant with the deepest sense of friendship.
You are a beautiful person who deserves better. Love yourself and embrace all that you have to give. It humbles me to call you friend, I will always be there for you. What I said earlier pales in what you have given me no matter how it turns out.
Your H does not see what I and others see, it will be his lose not yours, you truly are a beautiful butterfly.
