I would ask her to go to counceling together. She would tell me that she didn't have the time...that she had to work alot. Funny, I juggled going to class, volunteered at my daughters school, went to work, worked out, researched for the divorce, went to DivorceCare group, went to Marriage counceling at the same church, went to church on Sundays, took care of the children over the weekend....I made the time. NO reason why she couldn't.
I would offer to go to another DivorceCare group near her mothers where she is staying at....She would make an excuse and say..."OH, I have plans next week OR I can't, I have to work".
I felt that I did everything humanly possible to save my marriage...and I felt that she didn't even blink for ours.
