After reading your post to LosingSunshine it got me to thinking that I shouldn't ask my W that question after all. I think I will maintain the detach approach and do my best to make her miss me. Now, not getting to spend the 4th with her will suck but this may be in order now to keep the big picture in focus and who knows maybe she will bring something up about this weekend. I think I will wait and see what happens, so if nothing happens with her I will go on with my own plans.
