I have nothing but time, so I'll see what the future brings. If I could only notice some change in her. She's drinking to much, her heart is still hard, and she is still so very confused about so many things in her life. I honestly have compassion for her, but not attraction at this point.
Tom,
I could have written that. I am going through the same thing right now with my ex. The thing that I have noticed though is that it's still all about him. "I'm lonely". "I have nothing". "I didn't think it would be like this". Funny thing because we all warned him and he didn't want to hear it. But change???? Real change?? If that were the case and his heart had softened shouldn't the converdstion go something like , "I'm sorry that I hurt you and the kids"? Short and sweet. I've not heard anythig like that.
You know I vividly remember that day I talked to him and said that his heart was so hard and all he could say was that it had to be hard when it came to me. I didn't understand how someone could do that then and I sure don't understand it now.
