Real life is----part 5

[SDFoundGirl]

Yes, he's being a cake eater, but the problem with eating too much cake is that it has the nasty habit of making you pretty sick with overindulgence.

Your H *will* regret this someday. I'm sitting here on the sidelines thinking about how much this OW is using him--he is now going to have to be her meal ticket. She's living w/her mom for a reason, and your H doesn't make much $ to hear you speak of it. What you're giving him as a settlement won't last that long. She will suck him dry and then leave him. OR he'll get tired of having to be the "responsible" one.

I'm sorry you're going through this, really I am. However, I am really happy that you are taking care of yourself and doing what YOU need to do for your own peace of mind.

I recommend video taping all of the stuff that's valuable in your house before H starts packing. Do you guys have a list of who gets what?

I'm so happy your family is so supportive, and I'm extra happy that you still get a vacation. You WILL survive.

SD