Awe Karen.... that really stinks. Big hugs for both of you. I wish I had an answer that could take the pain from them instantly. It's a horrible thing to endure ourselves but watching our children suffer is almost unbearable.... the anger at the X just wells up like a volcano ready to erupt. Ya know... his coming clean to you with his feelings speaks volumes tho. If he's generally an unemotional guy and he felt safe allowing those to surface and have a voice put to them I'm guessing that in itself will do wonders for him. Just keep allowing him the freedom to feel the way he does w/o telling him what he should know or think and I believe that will do wonders for him IMO anyway....
Hang in there lady... we find there are snags along the way but the journey is much smoother than before....
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Psa 51:10 Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me.
