Honestly if this dragged out he would be getting less. The $10,000 down payment on the house was from an inheritence from my Grandparents and so my lawyer said that legally I don't owe him anything for the house. My H thinks I am lying to him about this, but it is the truth. If it went to court, he would be getting a LOT less. But we all know that he is a cake eater and once again he is getting his cake eating way. But I will finally be able to be alright again and my peace of mind is worth the extra money (which I figure that if I took it to court and everything it would cost me just about the same as what I am offering him).

Plans have changed yet again. The new plan is that my parents go to Nashville from Wednesday-Sunday for my Dad's singing thing. H is out of the house by the 16th. I get the locked changed etc. etc. and leave for Florida on the 20th. Everyone thinks it will be best if I am around while he is moving things out in case he tries to take things that legally are mine or whatever.

I am finally starting to calm down....

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08