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Re: ms ladybug SQUISHED (2) ms ladybug #1500418 06/30/08 07:37 PM
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TwinDad Member T Joined: Apr 2008 Posts: 1,194	Thinking about you Mrs Ladybug! I'm hoping the relative silence lately is due to good news $\:\)$ TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning

Re: ms ladybug SQUISHED (2) catfan #1500432 06/30/08 07:49 PM
Joined: Sep 2005 Posts: 4,805 East coast C cat03 Member
cat03 Member C Joined: Sep 2005 Posts: 4,805 East coast	someone told me (this applies to lots of things) that which is hardest for you to do is exactly what you must do. Before you do something which you think might bring conflict ask yourself "is what I'm about to do going to help or hurt my M?" Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2 30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.

Re: ms ladybug SQUISHED (2) cat03 #1500792 07/01/08 12:54 AM
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catfan Member Joined: Nov 2006 Posts: 2,131	To add a bit to cat03's post, ask "how will my reaction, words, etc help me reach my ultimate goal?" If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa Me-44 W-42 S-11/8/06, D-9/12/08 M-19 1/2 yrs D13, D11 Bomb-10/06

Re: ms ladybug SQUISHED (2) catfan #1501732 07/01/08 07:58 PM
Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 882 Central CA M ms ladybug OP Member
OP ms ladybug Member M Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 882 Central CA	No. It's not good. I don't feel like going into all of it, but he called me today to tell me that he doesn't ever want to hear from me again. He doesn't want to see me or speak to me ever. ...Oh, and today's our anniversary. Nice timing. Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."

Re: ms ladybug SQUISHED (2) ms ladybug #1501733 07/01/08 08:00 PM
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Virtually_Handsome Member V Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 13,424 AZ	(((((((bug))))))) Nice guy, eh? The lack of brain activity can be remarkable!

Re: ms ladybug SQUISHED (2) Virtually_Handsome #1501740 07/01/08 08:03 PM
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TwinDad Member T Joined: Apr 2008 Posts: 1,194	(((((((Ladybug))))))) I'm so sorry, I was hoping it would be good news $\:\($ TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning

Re: ms ladybug SQUISHED (2) TwinDad #1501760 07/01/08 08:20 PM
Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 882 Central CA M ms ladybug OP Member
OP ms ladybug Member M Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 882 Central CA	I'm sitting at my desk crying, and the freakin state surveyors are here doing the inspection on the hospital. I'm supposed to be upstairs with them. Can't seem to put on a good face. Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."

Re: ms ladybug SQUISHED (2) ms ladybug #1501769 07/01/08 08:27 PM
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Virtually_Handsome Member V Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 13,424 AZ	(((((bug))))) It sounds trite, and I hate to say it, but it will get better.

Re: ms ladybug SQUISHED (2) Virtually_Handsome #1501770 07/01/08 08:28 PM
Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 882 Central CA M ms ladybug OP Member
OP ms ladybug Member M Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 882 Central CA	Thanks Jeff. I know I'll live through this. I don't see how, but I know I will. I just think the timing stinks! Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."

Re: ms ladybug SQUISHED (2) ms ladybug #1501786 07/01/08 08:40 PM
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Virtually_Handsome Member V Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 13,424 AZ	The timing makes me want to hit him over the head!

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