My best friend just called and I vented a bit to her. She won't even be in the same room with H. Her husband is a really good friend of my H (and mine) but he won't say anything because it is between us. They are renting a house to him so they have sort of got involved anyway.
But her H has helped me with stuff here at my house and I know he would do anything that he could for me. He really knows how to be a friend.
Hey and it was Kirk that said sometimes the needs of the one outweigh those of the many, but he was referring to Spock( or maybe himself in that it was his need of Spock that caused Spock to come back).
I'm not looking forward to being divorced just have accepted that it is going to happen.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory