NikB #27 (still tentatively Piecing)

[NikB]

Thanks all!! Yes, I am still so grateful and relieved that my H is OK. I send out a "race report" to friends and family after each race. I sent out "part 1" about the win yesterday, part 2 about the wreck today. It was weird how anxious I got re-living it. I had to remind myself "he's OK!"

SD
Thank you, I totally appreciate your input as always! OMG LW's hair is over-frizzed too?? I had forgotten that. I had thought about the ability to still contact each other, definitely. In fact part of me fears the non-work contact could possibly come back again now that there's no "excuse" for contact at work.

I just keep telling myself that it's got to be so much better working on the opposite end of town, and having no reason to talk with her constantly all day long. That at least, if he is in fact trying to cut that R off, he's not going to constantly have that factor to suck him back in. Ya know? He hasn't in fact said he's "done" with her but his actions seem to indicate that, and I think (hope) that not working there will help push things even more in that direction. I haven't been in the sitution but if I had an A with someone, I think it would be a LOT harder to move on if I still saw them every single day.

It's a good point that a much larger part of that is me working on letting go of it all, though. And I know you're in a much more "secure" position than I am at this point, so it's interesting that it STILL affects you as much as it does. It's good to know that and be prepared.

And... I am so sorry about the picture!! Maybe it's wrong but it would bug me, too - quite a bit I think. Gotta work on that eh?