someone who likes a little adventure, say willing to sky dive or someone who will break law and endanger others, for instance, street race.
Do you want a "Man" who intrinsictly makes you feel "safe protected and cared for"
or ACOA issues, do you tend to find guys you need to "fix?"
I'm a nice guy, also an ACOA and I hate conflict. I picked a woman who wanted things done her way so it was easier to pease her than to fight her. Evntually it wasn't worth fighting so she got her way about most things. The safe way to coexist with her was to eventually withdraw because nobody ever wins an argument with her. Then she would complain about our lack of communication.
I am still a nice guy and am attracted to strong women BUT I will not court one unless she is willing to let me lead her. Leading her would take into account all of her strengths, attributes and gifts God has given her. I will seek to know her intimately, her hopes, wishes, dreams as well as her fears and it will be my goal to please her (by always doing the things that please my God).
Do I have an edge? A wild one? No. But I do see life as an adventure and have been living it accordingly.
We can take the tendencies that resulted from the path our life took and be proactive about how we allow those tenedncies to affect our choices.
Committed2Him- "C2H" All Things (Back from Spain!)...18
