Real life is----part 5

[Starshyne]

Can I say how much I have gotten to HATE drama? I mean I really HATE it.

I guess the talking with my Dad worked because he has said (not legally binding or anything) that he will take the new offer. So now instead of paying his car off and giving him $1,500 for the house, I am paying his car off and giving him #3,500 for the house. He wanted $5,000 and the car payed off. The whole car thing is something that he just doesn't get. Because the money for the car wouldn't be in cash, he didn't want it. I have always paid off his car each month, so as far as he was concerned, the car was a nonissue. What he wanted was for me to give him $5,000 and not pay off the car ($3,000 left on it)and then he would make the payments each month. Ummmm....I want my name off that car!

The reason why he needs all of this money I found out is to get a $600 a month (which is outrageous for this area) apartment for OW and her 2 kids to live with him. So basically he wants me to pay for his new family's living expenses. And one of the questions he had was how soon after he signs the papers can he get married! OMG!!!!

So now instead of leaving on vacation on Wednesday, I am going to have to stick around here and make another appointment with the lawyer. All because the jerk wouldn't sign today. Uh! Actually my parents are so sweet. They are trying to figure out how they can go to Nashville for my Dad's singing thing and then come back to Illinois, work for a week and then go to Disney with me.

I just have this awful feeling of being overwhelmed. I hope he sticks to his word.

Sara