I am so terribly sorry that he is putting you through this. He is being SO unreasonable!
Have a good cry, don't do a damned thing tonite, and then come back tomorrow and start planning anew. I think that he is simply negotiating with you, and treating this like a business deal.
WHICH IT IS.
I know that's hard to think of, but at this point, that's EXACTLY what it is, and the sooner you can get yourself emotionally and intellectually into that mode, the better off you will be.
You hold more card than you think you do. He has real weaknesses right now, and you can exploit them to your advantage.
